Quote of the Day

What is given — and this would also represent a kind of death — is not some thing, but goodness itself, a giving goodness, the act of giving or the donation of the gift. A goodness that must not only forget itself but whose source remains inaccessible to the donee. It subjects its receivers, giving itself to them as goodness itself but also as the law. In order to understand in what way this gift of the law means not only the emergence of a new figure of responsibility but also of another kind of death, one has to take into account the uniqueness and irreplacable singularity of the self as the means by which — and it is here that it comes close to death — existence excludes every possible substitution. Now to have the experience of responsibility on the basis of the law that is given, that is, to have the experience of one’s absolute singularity and apprehend one’s own death, amounts to the same thing. Death is very much that which nobody else can undergo or confront in my place. My irreplaceability is therefore conferred, delivered, “given,” one can say, by death. It is the same gift, the same source, one could say the same goodness and the same law. It is from the site of death as the place of my irreplaceability, that is, of my singularity, that I feel called to responsibility. In this sense only a mortal can be responsible.

–Derrida, The Gift of Death (41)

Attractiveness +15

Today I was playing Fable, where so far only female NPCs have displayed the heart icon that indicates an NPC finds your hero attractive. I asked “So what do I need to do to get guys to be attracted to me?”

Mike says, “I’m attracted to you!” He’s so sweet.